I suppose I should be old enough to know better but I think about sex a lot, write about sex quite a lot and, when the stars are aligned, even have sex a lot - or at least what feels like a lot for a man of my advanced years. I have been a client of sex workers for nearly 35 years and I have nothing but respect for women who choose to make a living this way. I am only too aware that our society frowns on their work and also on those who use their services. I also know that there are very real problems around street prostitution and the criminal activity associated with some aspects of sex work and that for some women it isn't a choice at all just the only way they can survive or worse something they have been coerced into doing.
I am in the fortunate position to have been able to use the services of intelligent, independent women who care about both their own and my health and well being. And I really don't think it is any business of the State to interfere in arrangements that we voluntarily enter into. They deserve to have their expertise and abilities extolled like any other profession and I will, though only with their agreement, share some examples of why they deserve recognition.
This Blog will look back over the years and reflect on what has changed and, hopefully, what I have learned. The text is all mine. It may stray into the political but only in so far as it relates sex and sex work. Where appropriate any images will be credited.
And as for me, I am a happily married, semi-retired professional whose adventures with charming and beautiful women helps to sustain that marriage. My real identity is my business alone and any effort to find out what it is would be most unhelpful so please respect my privacy.